Relationships are based on trust and if you
have been tempted to snoop on your partner
for whatever reason, it indicates that you
don't trust him/her completely.
If you have a reason to doubt your partner,
then there’s something seriously wrong and
needs to be resolved at the earliest.
Why should you avoid checking your
partner’s phone?
1. It’s a breach of trust: Instead of making
things worse by snooping on your partner and
secretly going through his/her phone, it’s best to
eliminate all doubts by talking to him/her about
your concerns.
2. A niggling doubt will only give rise to
more suspicions: If you choose to ignore
your doubts, they will eat you up from the
inside and will influence every decision you
make, which will be detrimental to your
relationship in the long run.
3. What you see is not always true: Texts
and emoticons can be interpreted in different
ways. Sometimes, being quick to assume
things without checking the facts can destroy
a good relationship.
If you feel you have to keep an eye on
him/her, you are…
Dealing with major issues: Trust is the
foundation of any relationship, and if you
don’t have that, it’s a sign that there is
something seriously wrong. While no one is
asking you to blindly believe whatever is being
told to you, if there is even the slightest room
for doubt, you should be asking yourself why.
Also, think seriously about whether you
should continue with the relationship or not.
*a word they say is enough for d wise*
