Relationships are based on trust and if you
have been tempted to snoop on your partner
for whatever reason, it indicates that you
don't trust him/her completely.
If you have a reason to doubt your partner,
then there’s something seriously wrong and
needs to be resolved at the earliest.
Why should you avoid checking your
partner’s phone?
1. It’s a breach of trust: Instead of making
things worse by snooping on your partner and
secretly going through his/her phone, it’s best to
eliminate all doubts by talking to him/her about
your concerns.
2. A niggling doubt will only give rise to
more suspicions: If you choose to ignore
your doubts, they will eat you up from the
inside and will influence every decision you
make, which will be detrimental to your
relationship in the long run.
3. What you see is not always true: Texts
and emoticons can be interpreted in different
ways. Sometimes, being quick to assume
things without checking the facts can destroy
a good relationship.
If you feel you have to keep an eye on
him/her, you are…
Dealing with major issues: Trust is the
foundation of any relationship, and if you
don’t have that, it’s a sign that there is
something seriously wrong. While no one is
asking you to blindly believe whatever is being
told to you, if there is even the slightest room
for doubt, you should be asking yourself why.
Also, think seriously about whether you
should continue with the relationship or not.
*a word they say is enough for d wise*
Thursday, 31 July 2014
Thursday, 8 May 2014
WAKE UP AND CATCH FIRE…
Another ‘funny’ title… but the truth remains the same… never have I seen a generation such as mine…
We have become so used to God and his current move that we think wee have seen God in all his expressions.
I took out time recently to do a research into the different moves of God with each generation right from the time of the Apostles through the times of the wigglesworth, braham, kathrine kulman Idahosa, Benny hinn,Adeboye, oyedepo, suleman, Jesugbamila(wink) etc(The names not necessarily typed in any particular order) but I noticed that with each generation he moved with a different word for each season, in each dispensation there seemed to be something he needed to achieve and he used a particular method to achieve it. If Idahosa wanted to operate like Braham he would have missed the move of God which God used to Liberate the city of blood(Benin) and spread ‘penticostalism’ through Nigeria.
Many of the people in my generation were not privy to the
move of God in the 70’s on our campuses when God used the S.U to birth a move
of holiness, consecration and the prophetic upon the land.
Many of the youths in my generation didn't get to meet the
likes of Babalola, or the late Archbishop alive, and have only seen the likes of Pst Adeboye,
Oyedepo, Suleman, Joe Olaiya from a distance…
And yet hard as it may seem, just as the generation of the
forefathers had to take a bow, the generation of our fathers will soon take a
bow. The question is where is the generation that is to take over???
My generation is busy pursuing money, fame, and have
forgotten the God of our fathers, when push comes to shove it is only those
that know their God that can do exploits.
That being said, just as God moved with the preceeding generations, there is a new move of God about to sweep the surface of the earth and God is waiting for this generation. For you and for me to WAKE UP!!!
We have been asleep for too long.
We need to contact fresh fire!!!
Wednesday, 7 May 2014
MOSES IS DEAD.... JOSHUA WHERE ARE YOU!!!
I know the title of this post might sound a bit harsh or confusing but I ask that you be patient with me and follow me on this ride as I do my best to express myself in terms that you will understand…
At the mention of Joshua what comes to mind is the popular scripture Joshua 1:8, however The book of Joshua started with God speaking unto Joshua after the death of Moses.
How had God been communicating with the Israelites up until
then? Through Moses; but now God opened up to Joshua. In other words for Joshua
to have a God encounter Moses had to die.
Moses represent not just a person but a system an order a
generation,
We thank God for our fathers; Babalola, Archbishop Idahosa and many more
who God used mightily in their time… Idahosa was a man of uncommon boldness who
literally carried God everywhere he went. It’s an open secret how he challenged
the principalities in Benin city and began a revolution the world is yet to
recover from, Bishop Oyedepo, Daddy Adeboye they have shone the light of the
gospel in the country and even outside… they have done a lot…. They are getting
old, and the old order seems to be fast in place, we have memorized the ‘how’
of their services, we have learnt ‘how’ they pray, we know how to say ‘let
somebody shout hallelujah’ like Daddy Adeboye… but do we know their God???
The question is what next?
God is looking for a Joshua generation that will take the
bull by the horns… a generation that will say even if Moses is no more I want
to be a Joshua… I want to know God for myself!
Difference between Moses and Joshua
· Moses took them out of Egypt: Joshua took them into the promised land
· Moses fought for them: Joshua fought with them
· Moses carried a rod: Joshua carried a sword
· Moses fed them: Joshua taught them to plant
Moses went at the forefront: Joshua went with his people
Moses parted the Red sea for israel to escape: Joshua parted the Jordan for Israel to conquer
Moses was the past… Joshua is the future…
Many claim to be Christians but yet cannot point to a single
God encounter in their entire lives… this is the reason why we have a lot of
mediocre Christians, we are used to Pastor pray for me(Moses order) it’s time
to cross to doing it yourself(Joshua order).. How long will we be fed with
manna for? When will we begin to plant and rear our own food??? For how long
will this generation remain in the shadows of Moses? instead of encountering God for themselves and
become the leaders they are meant to be my generation has become satisfied with
grumbling and complaining.
C’mon guys… enough is enough… JOSHUA WHERE ARE YOU??? #JoshuaGENERATION
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